Aug 02 2010
How To Avoid Dog Obedience Training Issues
A few days ago I got an emergency call from a client, Clare, about a dog fight. Normally her two young dogs are best friends, but last week there was a big-time dogfight.
Clare was worries that this wasn’t going to be just a one-time thing, so she called and asked for my help. She told me that she had no clue what might have precipitated the dogfight.
In Clare’s mind the problem “came out of nowhere!”
But when it comes to dog obedience training, in reality there were definite reasons why her dogs lost control, and dog behavior signs that indicated the dogs were getting edgy with each other. (As just one example, one of her dogs had started growling when the other dog entered the room.)
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Back to the story.
When I spoke to Clare I reminded her that she happened to be in the middle of a major renovation of her house. Even if the project is managed perfectly, remodeling your home creates confusion and chaos.
Unfortunately for Clare things were not going smoothly during the remodeling. Normally quiet and relaxed at home, instead Clare was tense and upset and had unhappy discussions with the subcontractor. And this situation had gone on for weeks!
So What Happened that Made Clare’s Dog’s Act this Way?
Clare said, “But my dogs like each other! They play together and sleep together.”
The plain truth is… dogs do not live in a vacuum. Dogs sense what’s going on around them and what the people close to them are feeling, thinking, and even experiencing. Clare’s dogs:
1. Watched Clare (who is usually calm) verbally confront a subcontractor many times,
2. Felt her unhappiness, anxiety, and anger,
3. Lived in remodeling chaos,
4. Missed dog classes, and
5. Wasn’t getting enough exercise. (Because it had been so hot for the past few weeks, Clare neglected to take them on their usual walks and simply let them run in her backyard instead.)
Any of those reasons alone probably would not have triggered a fight, but when stacked on top of each other, the increasing level of stress broke down the relationship between two formerly friendly dogs.
Is This A Permanent Rift In The Dogs’ Relationship?
No. The remodeling project is finished now. There’s now, once again, peace in the house. The dog lessons and the regular walks have resumed. It will take a little time, but things between the two dogs will go smoothly again.
Really Understand the Emotional Messages Your Dog is Getting From You?
If you want to see how your emotions affect your dogs try this exercise from my book, Catch Your Dog Doing Something Right.
Have your dog come with you into a room. Close the door. Sit down on the floor. Do not talk, move, or gesture but think angry and unhappy thoughts for the first minute.
Then you want to add actual words, other sounds, and even body language to express your feelings.
But, you don’t want to direct them at your dog! During the next 30 seconds… feel the emotion pouring out.
* Does your dog come to you, try and avoid you, get anxious, or not pay attention to you?
* Does the dog’s reaction change? Notice whether or not your dog has a stronger reaction once you add feelings, sound and body language?
Now shift your thinking and start focusing on happy and exciting thoughts for 60 seconds. Now try adding some words, movement, or sounds to give your feelings a “physical” presence. But, you don’t want to direct them at your dog! Now for the next 30 seconds or so, use a voice that’s happy…feel those emotions.
* Does your dog come to you, try and avoid you, get anxious, or not pay attention to you?
* Do you notice that your dog’s reaction changes? Does the dog react more when you add words, feelings, and body language?
This is a simple way to show you just how much of an impact your voice and attitude has on your dog. If you’re upset after a bad day at work or stressed because of an argument with your spouse, neighbor, or daughter, or you simply stub your toe, your dog can sense it. Tension is something that dogs absorb.
There are certain signs of dominant behaviors that demand quick action, such as one dog putting his chin on another dog’s shoulders, snarling or growling if another dog enters the room, guarding a toy or a food bowl, or ears or a tail that is very erect. What you need to do is to figure out the reasons behind the sudden dominant behavior and then work to rebalance the relationship with training, changes in diet, exercise, doing more to assert yourself as pack leader, and getting in touch with a professional if things still aren’t working.
Also, be sure to go and download the free dog obedience training audio course (and the videos and workbooks) I mentioned above. These tools have helped many thousands of dog owners understand why their dogs act the way they do, and I’m sure they’ll do the same for you!
